Cocktail Napkins

Common Questions

Our goal is for every customer to be totally satisfied with their purchase. If this isn't the case, let us know and we'll do our best to work with you to make it right.

We are unable to accept returns on most items.

These items are always final sale:
-Monogrammed items
-Custom Orders

We work quickly to ship your order as soon as possible. Once your order has shipped, you will receive an email with further information. Delivery times vary depending on your location.

Typical Turn-Around-Time ("TAT") is 7-10 business days.

Shipping is calculated based on order weight and destination.

To keep your Embroidered items looking fresh and bright, machine wash them on a gentle cycle with cold water. Use mild detergent and avoid bleach. Tumble dry low or air dry for best results. If needed, iron on low heat to smooth wrinkles.

Embroidery uses a paper “stabilizer” to support the fabric and ensure stitches are even and high end.

While we try our best to remove all traces of stabilizer, some very intricate designs are nearly impossible to remove every tiny bit. These pieces should disappear after a few washes, and will not impair or harm any washers or dryers.

What’s Your Monogram Style?
A Cobblestones & Grits Guide to Monograms

Monograms are timeless, elegant, and a wonderful way to personalize your belongings — from cocktail napkins and stationery to clothing and gifts. But with so many styles to choose from, it can be tricky to know which monogram style fits your personality and purpose best.

Using the names Grace Caroline Williams and Christopher Ryan Williams as examples, we’ll show you how to create monograms that are timeless.

1. The Three-Letter Monogram
Traditionally, a three-letter monogram includes:
First initial (first name)
Last initial (larger, center position)
Middle initial
Example:
For Grace Caroline Williams, the monogram is:
G W C
Where W is the last initial and appears larger in the center.

Traditional Three-Letter Monogram looks best on:
-Cocktail Napkins
-Kitchen Towels
-Dinner Napkins
-Other home linens

2. The Man’s Monogram
Traditionally, the man’s monogram includes:

First initial (first name)
Last initial (center position)
Middle initial
All initials the same size

Example:
For Ryan Christopher Williams, the monogram is
RWC

3. Two-Letter Monogram
For a cleaner or simpler look, use just the first and last initials:
Example:
Grace Caroline Williams becomes “GW.”
Both letters equal size, side by side.

4. Single Initial Monogram
Sometimes, one initial is all you need — usually the last name initial for family items.
Example:
Williams:
W
Perfect for a subtle and elegant touch.

Customers typically use Initial Monograms on:
-Wreath Sashes
-Cocktail Napkins
-Dinner Napkins

5. The Couple’s Monogram
Traditionally, a married monogram includes:
Wife’s first initial
Husband’s Last initial (larger, center position)
Husband’s last initial
Example:
For Grace and Ryan Williams, the monogram is:
G W R
Where W is the last initial and appears larger in the center.

The Couple’s Monogram looks best on:
-Cocktail Napkins
-Kitchen Towels
-Dinner Napkins
-Other home linens

Cobblestones & Grits will keep monograms proportionate to the item unless specified in a design or specified by the customer.
This means most monograms are typically between 2” and 4” in height.

Ready to customize? Contact us for a custom order!

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At Cobblestones & Grits, we thoughtfully style our products in curated settings inspired by Southern homes and gracious entertaining. Images may include digitally enhanced or AI-assisted backgrounds to showcase our designs in a variety of decorative environments. Rest assured, the products themselves—including fabric, embroidery, monograms, and design details—are the actual products offered for sale. We strive to present each item as accurately as possible so you can shop with confidence.

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